*I just want to start this post by apologizing for the total mess in the background of most of these pictures. Sometimes you just deal with what you can get!
So I mentioned before that 'Lil only wears dresses. That isn't exactly accurate. I figured out she just is only willing to wear one article of clothing at a time. So she'll wear just a pair of pants as happily as just a shirt or just a dress, which is why we always choose that last option!
So here's the story of how I did an entire wardrobe for my girl for less than $20.
When I started, 'Lil had 2 play dresses, one of which was getting too small. Now she's got this:
(the two we already had aren't in this shot.) I'm going to break this down with all the links for the tutorials I found too.
1: ($5.47) this is a group of 3 dresses that I got from
Threadup when they were having a special (it was $15 off for first time costumers, so I only spent on shipping). So $5.47 so far.
2: (free) This was a man's shirt I got for free, then I followed
THIS tutorial to make it into a dress. Except for the sleeves - at first I tried to just leave them . . . .
Not so great! So I cut them off, sewed a bottom band to gather them in, and the final result is MUCH cuter!
(ok, I still need to hem it up a bit, but hey, it works)
3: ($8) I already
talked about this one, and it was by far the most expensive one of the bunch (WHY is fabric so gosh darn much?) and you can get the pattern
HERE. So $14 for 5 dresses so far.
4: (free) This might be my favorite one of the bunch. I took a black long sleeved t that fit her and a women's skirt I got for free and combined them. The skirt had a shirred waist, so really it was just sewing the two together.
5: ($2) thrifted from goodwill (so $15 for 7 dresses so far)
6: ($1). One of these jumpers was a hand me down, the other thrifted for a buck, but both of them I took old t shirts and sewed them to the straps. That way she thinks it's only one dress and will still be covered!)
7: ($1) another thrifted dress, but I did the same sew-the-shirt-in trick as before.
10: ($1) this was the easiest BY FAR of them all. It's a size 8 shirt. Fits my size 4 like a dress - what could be better!
9: (free) I followed
THIS tutorial, but then realized I hated the sleeves. So I cut them off, trimmed them a bit, then sewed them back on. I also wanted a waist line, so I sewed the ribbon on. Super easy!
10: (free) this is a mix of a bunch of tutorials, but mostly
THIS one.
11: (free) I had a friend give me the fabric for this one, and I sewed up a little pesant dress, mostly following
THIS tutorial, but there's dozens of them out there!
At this point I counted up how many dresses we had (14 if you're wondering), and decided that was enough. But I have ideas/supplies for about 5 more, so we'll see.
It really helps that I had a bunch of adult clothes given to me for free, but it really isn't to hard to save a bundle on your kid's clothes!
Today I read THIS post on another blog.
I love things like this. I love it when parents learn something about themselves, something they didn't realize they were doing, or needed to do, or wanted to to.
I needed to comment on this, and thought I'd copy it here (with a little expanding too)
Wonderfully written.
Along with this idea . . . I grew up KNOWING that my parents enjoyed me more and more each year. I constantly heard them saying things like “I hate it when people call it ‘terrible twos’. It’s TERRIFIC TWOS”, or “having 4 teenage girls is a joy, not a burden. I love having such great conversations with my daughters now.”
Think of the difference of that and what you usually hear. I knew my parents wanted to be around me. I knew they expected me to act appropriately so everyone ELSE would also want to be around me. We didn’t have moody teenagers because we were expected to be pleasant. (and had consequences too!)
I don’t expect my kids to be perfect, but I do expect them to grow and change. And yes, my three year old screams with the best of them (constantly too!). But I look and that sparkle in her eyes, and celebrate the little things – like the fact that she is finally understanding us (she has a severe communication delay)
Or the inventiveness of my 8 year old. Yes, today she started acting like a moody teenager. But look at just how much she’s grown.
Or listening to my 7 year old giggle as he plays with his 1 year old brother.
Every day, all 4 of my kids are a joy. Sometimes you have to dig under the unpleasantness to see it, but it IS there! And what an exciting thing it is to be able to discover that joy in each of them as they grow too.